When Olivia Parker learned that her younger sister Vanessa was engaged, it didn’t come through a phone call, a family group chat, or even a courteous text. It came from Facebook. Late on a Thursday night, a cheerful photo popped up on her screen: Vanessa in a white dress, one hand covering her mouth, the other raised to display a diamond ring. Their parents, Richard and Elaine Parker, stood beside her holding champagne glasses, glowing as though they had spent the entire day celebrating together as a perfectly happy family. The caption read: “She said yes! See you all in Florida for the engagement weekend!”
I found out about my sister’s engagement on Facebook, then learned my parents had planned a lavish party in Florida without inviting me, even though they used my credit card to pay for it. So on the big day, I blocked the card and canceled every booking.