I’m Claire, 28F, American, and I grew up in the system.
By the time I was eight, I’d been through more foster homes than I’d had birthdays.
I had one rule for myself: don’t get attached.
People like to say kids are “resilient,” but really, we just learn to pack fast and not ask questions.
By the time they dropped me at the last orphanage, I had one rule for myself: don’t get attached.
Then I met Noah.
He was nine, thin, a little too serious for a kid, with dark hair that stuck up in the back and a wheelchair that made everyone around him act weird.
“If you’re going to guard the window, you have to share the view.”
The other kids weren’t cruel exactly; they just didn’t know what to do with him.
They shouted “hey” from across the room and then ran off to play tag where he couldn’t follow.
The staff talked about him right in front of him, like, “make sure you help Noah,” as if he was a chore chart and not a person.
One afternoon during “free time,” I dropped onto the floor near his chair with my book and said, “If you’re going to guard the window, you have to share the view.”
We were in each other’s lives from that moment on.
